Two and New

We have survived the first week home with our newborn.  Holy crap.  Only one of my friends told me that it was going to suck and it definitely has been challenging.

Some highlights of the last week (since I don't know how long I can keep the toddler from maiming the dog or keep my tiny piglet from nursing):

The c-section went so much better than last time!  I mean, minus the vomiting during the middle of it, I didn't have any heart issues afterwards and the spinal worked as it was supposed to.  I still am not sure why anyone would choose a c-section cause that shit hurts, but to each his own.  Technically I did choose this c-section, but only because of my busted up cervix.

My sister and mom were here to watch the toddler and help out.  Blessings!  I am not sure what we would have done if they hadn't been here.  They all survived the week and the toddler enjoyed all the spoiling.

The toddler is doing really well although feeling a little left out I think.  She loves her baby sister, but does not want her sleep...ever as evidenced by the fact that she "sings" in her face and pokes at her should she dare close her eyes.  The toddler has also decided she no longer wants to nap or potty train.

The hubby has been amazing.  He has mastered the art of doing laundry in the hotel and even uses the toddler has a helper (God bless him).

The newborn sleeps like a champ (Praise Jesus!).  She is already up to 5 hours at night and it has made a huge difference in the quality of our lives during the day.  She is almost back up to her birth weight and only turned 1 week old on Monday.  Did I mention she really loves to eat?

I know this may irritate some people, but the truth has to be said.  Breastfeeding a newborn sucks!  My nipples look like they were shredded by a cheese grater and we've already had an appointment with the lactation consultant.  I don't even care how much we get charged for it because it was worth every penny.  Trying to relax and replicate the success I had in her office at home, especially at night, is another matter, but we'll get there.  But anyone who tells you that breastfeeding is natural and your infant automatically knows what to do is either blowing smoke up your ass or is delusional.  The newborn may squirm her way in that direction, but she does not know what to do once she gets there.  But having an awesome lactation consultant makes a HUGE difference so don't hesitate to get hooked up with someone.  Your nipples will thank you.

This is the first time since the baby was born that I've had  5 minutes to sit and get online.

I love my girls and I need to go rescue the dog from the toddler.